In honor of Prematurity Awareness Month, I snagged a copy of this new book Half Baked from the library. Now, I don't have much time, or energy, to read these days for pleasure. But, I ripped through this book in less than a week!
The author is the mom of a 25-weeker who chronicles the challenges of her pregnancy, hospital bed rest, delivery and her daughter's journey through the NICU. It was great to read the "inner thoughts" of someone else who has been through a very similar experience. And our stories have many eery parallels.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who is a NICU mom!
I do have some criticisms though. First, the author seems to resort to using her thesaurus too much, plugging in $.25 words in ways that do not flow naturally. I mean, really, the word "soporific" shouldn't appear more than once in a book of this length. I felt it detracted from her otherwise witty and "light" prose that made the book enjoyable (and easier to swallow given the gravity of its subject matter).
Second, the author threw some stinging jabs at moms of preemies who weren't as sick or as premature as her daughter - as if our experiences weren't "bad enough." I don't think it was her intention, and I can relate on many levels to what she was saying. Its hard to be sympathetic when you are in the throes of the NICU toward moms of babies who were born weeks later than yours, and whose only "challenge" is to overcome some apnea or reflux issues. When you are in that hell, those things seem trivial compared to the challenge of simply trying to get your baby to BREATHE on their own. However, one mom's experience shouldn't diminish anothers. You really cannot compare preemies. I know I felt jealousy and resentment whenver I would hear of a baby who was Bennett's gestational age or younger who was doing better than he was. Silly really. I should be HAPPY that another baby isn't struggling as much as mine! But, the NICU can make you a bit psychotic. Regardless, I am assuming the book was intended to appeal to a wide-range of preemie-parents. If were me I'd have softened that discussion a little more.
Anyway - its still a great book, and it was great to hear that I'm not the only crazy psychotic preemie mom out there. Read it!